Thursday, March 24, 2011

BLOG 41: On Internet Thuggery.


INTERNET THUG: (noun)

Someone who expresses distasteful sentiments via Internet or text message, but in person does not. In fact, face-to-face this person is likely to avoid confrontation at all costs.

Internet thuggery seems to be at an all time high these days, especially via Twitter. I’m an admitted recovering twitter addict (one day at a time lol) and though I don’t have many “friends” on twitter, I do see how internet thuggery can play a part in real-life beat downs. Twitter gives you the opportunity to either directly contact someone, or think out loud about them via veiled tweets without ever mentioning their name. It’s the latter that causes the most trouble. Because although you may think it’s completely clear who you’re referring to in your subliminal tweet, your numerous other followers won’t see it that way. It’s an issue of Internet decorum. Either contact that person directly or accept the consequences of several other individuals ready to pop off on you at a moment’s notice.

Recently, I’ve been a victim of Internet thuggery. And, although I’m not a very confrontational person at all, I foresaw myself popping off. It got me wondering, has the Internet ruined our generation’s ability to face problems head on? Are we worse off than our parents and grandparents in that we may never get the chance to actually force our antagonists to “say it to our faces”? Or, are we better off?

At the end of the day, are we savvy or are we cowards?



Here’s an article on the subject: F*ck You, Anonymous!

Monday, March 21, 2011

My 25th Birthday in One Thousand Words.







:-)

This Week's Random Quote...



"Be not the slave of your own past - plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep, and swim far, so you shall come back with new self-respect, with new power, and with an advanced experience that shall explain
and overlook the old. "


-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Wacka Flocka Flame Would Rather Go Naked...


Rapper Wacka Flocka Flame is the latest in a growing list of celebrities to join PETA's "I'd Rather Go Naked Than Wear Fur" campaign. Wacka Flocka is the first rapper to strip down for the organization
and I'm laughing hysterically at this photo.

"Ink, Not Mink."

(I just cantttt.... *falls out laughin*)

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

BLOG 40: As I Approach a Quarter Century...

The wonderful thing about blogging is, you can track your growth in a real, tangible way. Last year this time, I was in a "things are so bad right now that they can only get better" kinda place. My living situation compounded with the stress of law school's first year hazing left me grasping for every little slice of hope possible. My post for my 24th birthday was reflective of that. I ended by saying "I’m looking forward to year 24, a year in which I intend to dance more than I walk and play as hard as I study..."

Did I fulfill that goal? I think so. This year, I lived. And more than anything, I'm proud of myself for that. I didn't bother thinking what anyone else would think of my choices. I took risks. I danced my little heart out. I changed the things in my life that I didn't like. And I found solace in the people who know and love me the most. 24 was a year of re-building.

I'm still a work in progress. There's no denying that. But I feel things differently now.

LESSONS LEARNED IN YEAR 24 :

1. I have to separate what happens to me from who I am.

I'm so so so so so much better than that thing that hurt me, or that grade that I got that I didn't like, or that job opportunity that I didn't get. Those are events that happened to me and that will hopefully be tools I utilize to approach situations in the future. But they are not now, nor have they ever been, who I am.

2. I should only want what wants me.

Now why would anyone NOT want as fabulous an individual as myself in their life? Beats me. Lol. I've lost quite a few friends since my 24th birthday. Not because they died or anything (thank Jesus), but because they chose to walk away. The crazy thing is, I'm a great friend. Sometimes I take a second, look at the space those people filled in my life and say, "Who the hell did [[insert name]] think she was?!" Hmph! At the risk of sounding cocky, I'd like to quote Charlie Sheen: "I’m tired of pretending like I’m not special. I’m tired of pretending like I’m not bitchin’. I'm a total … rock star from Mars. I'm a winner. I'm winning."

3. I've always got more things to be grateful for than I have to complain about.


When I think of the many, many, many things that I have to be grateful for, I have to catch my breath. God is not through blessing me. This I know for sure. AND every bad, filthy, ugly, unsavory, messy, hurtful, heart-shattering thing that has happened (and will happen) is part of God conditioning me to be the strongest, brightest, most-capable individual possible. In every storm there is a blessing.... and I'm more grateful than words could possibly express.





"I've had sickness
And I've had pain
My heart has been broken
And my life has been strained
But in spite of everything I've been through
I still gotta say thank you...

For your blessings
In spite of my mess
Lord, you blessed me
Right dead in the middle of my test.

I still gotta say thank you..."



This is my truth: MY NAME IS NADIA. I AM 25 YEARS OLD. AND I AM TREMENDOUSLY BLESSED.